Activating Oxytocin – The Master Hormone for Bliss and Bonding

Activating Oxytocin – The Master Hormone for Bliss and Bonding

By Indra

Contributing writer for Wake Up World

Known as the “bonding hormone”, oxytocin plays an important role in the neuroanatomy of wellbeing and intimacy.  It is associated with  various behaviors, including social recognition, pair bonding, orgasm, anxiety, and parental  behaviors.

The endocrine system produces and regulates our body’s hormonal activity.  The gland known as the hypothalamus creates oxytocin, and it is stored in the pituitary gland, which then releases it to the rest of the body.

Like all systems, this  works in complex feedback loop; One hormonal function in one gland then triggers the function of other glands in the system.  So for example, when we activate the hypothalamus it then activates the pituitary gland, which then sends signals to other glands within the body – the  adrenals,  the thyroid, and the  gonads – which in turn, are also connected via feedback loops.

Editor’s note: This article refers to the cultivation of oxytocin, a natural hormone produced by the human body. Oxytocin should not be confused with OxyContin/Oxycodone, a pharmaceutical opioid with similar effects to morphine.

In this  interaction, the hypothalamus and the pituitary are the “master” glands; the holders of  the crown frequency. The crown releases oxytocin, which ‘bonds’ all the rest of the systems in the body into one cohesive song. The natural state of the glands is interactive harmony – the unity consciousness  of  the crown frequency  – and the individual harmonies of the body come together to help create the song of your life;  how you are feeling, how  your immune and digestive systems are working, what your sexual drives are saying in any given moment in time… This bond is the bond of love.

The  Feedback Loop

If we know how to actively  cultivate this sense of wellness and love and being that is hardwired within our bodies, we’re inevitably  thrive. When we experience love – our own unique Bliss instinct  – we gravitate more towards the things that make us feel more love, make us feel more beautiful, more healthy, more satisfied, more abundant. We make choices that are from a place of security and happiness, and safety, rather than from a place of mistrust, and fear, and insecurity about what’s going to happen – am I going to have enough money, is my partner is going to stick around, are my children going to be fine etc. We make a lot of decisions from fear when we don’t know how to actively that secrete the sensation of love.

Like our DNA, our consciousness  play  an active role in determining when and  how our glandular system works. When we learn to  activate the glands, the hormones,  the sensations, we can activate  the frequency  of love in our being.

Whether we know it or not, we’re constantly in the process of a feedback loop. When we begin to understand and interact with our body with this  awareness, we can go from chasing love to creating.  When we understand the neurochemistry of love,  we can learn to  resonate with the crown frequency and  activate that “master hormone” within our own bodies. The feedback loop it creates goes beyond the endocrine system, positively impacting the brain and the immune, circulatory, nervous  and digestive systems. So, by developing an intimacy with our body glandular functions, we can give ourselves access to the sensation of love  and trigger an energetic feedback loop that creates more love,  and supports our physical health.

As part of this  feedback loop, other glands also  receive the oxytocin hormone, and help to regulate levels in the body by communicating to the hypothalamus that it has  had “enough”. What that means is that, through the innate intelligence of our body’s natural frequencies,  we feel  satiated and satisfied. We experience this love  sustainably. We know when we have had enough. We are not trying to satisfy  our cravings or addictions  to  foods, or sex, or emotional fulfillment; neediness of our emotions seem to disappear when we are able to find the feeling of love deep within ourselves. Physically and energetically. It ultimately comes back to the sensation of love.

Ancient Knowledge, Modern Suppression

So many problems in our lives come from not feeling the love that we desire – the love that we desire from our parents, from our peers, from our friends. We want to be in social interactions where we are really bonding, feeling the sense of compassion and support all around. And when we do, when we tune into that unity vibration, we really thrive, we don’t feel like we have as many cravings, we don’t feel lonely, and we don’t resort to  addictions to fill that need for love.

Unfortunately, our ability to tune into the  frequencies in our bodies has become largely dormant in today’s world. Toxins, chemicals, frequencies  and other environmental pollutants have affected the function of  our glands and we have lost access to their  purest functions,  which are  intrinsically linked with our experience of emotions and feelings. Social programming teaches us that it is “adult” behavior to  suppress our  emotional state, and  we end up replacing the “natural and native” functions of our glands with the “programmed version”. We expect  our endocrine system to behave counter-intuitively, and as a result,  our glands act up over time.

For example those who grow up in homes or cultures where suppressing one’s truth is rewarded (tall-poppy syndrome, for example) and those who have silently suffered from  manipulation  and  trauma, often experience issues of  the thyroid gland, which is linked to communication. The thyroid is also linked to metabolism, so unexpressed truth can often manifest in the body as  as weight gain.

A lot of our power has been taken away from us. Although the ancients held this knowledge, today, we do not  know  how to use the body. We do not teach our children  that we can influence  our digestive process, our genetic  expression,  our immune system, with our intention. And, with  the reductionist model still prevailing in modern medicine, we are not  taught to know  our bodies as a blissful, interactive  whole.

Activating the Crown Frequency

The first step to cleansing the body’s frequencies is to learn how to activate the glands. It’s not only important to activate the pituitary gland and the hypothalamus, it’s important to activate all the glands within the body so that they are all functioning in perfect harmony, and that feedback loop is in its best possible shape.

Activating Oxytocin- The Master Hormone for Bliss and Bonding

Initially, when you turn the focus of the lens into the physical body, you will develop a simple awareness of its  sensations. As you go deeper into that experience, your relationship with the sensations becomes more sophisticated, and in turn, the mind becomes more intelligent at interpreting those sensations.

Within the body system is a full octave of glands and organs that resonate on a certain frequency. When the white light of consciousness enters the body, it refracts and travels through seven different organs and glands with seven different frequencies. Each frequency regulates the characteristics and color of light emitted. For example, when the consciousness light enters the pineal gland, the energy emitted is violet due to the specific vibration of the gland.

Our ‘bliss frequency’ is the light of consciousness experienced through the full octave of frequencies in the body: the seven frequencies, plus the origin of the octave (the high ‘C’).  When your  instrument is tuned to these frequency,  amazing things happen.  This  is the state where we are most blissful, most beautiful, most thriving and most divine.

To do this we have to expose each gland to its native frequency.  When we start to reintroduce it to its natural frequency, it starts to re-program itself back to its healthy, natural state. With your energy centers balanced, everything becomes harmonized. This happens when we  allow ourselves to experience the natural bond of love; the frequency of our  bliss.  It  guides us  to what supports our being, and to what needs to be healed. For example, if you take a heart that doesn’t know how to experience love.  If  you give it love from all different directions, it is  reminded of its natural frequency and (as science has proven) the body responds by releasing dis-ease and returning to its natural state.

The  crown frequency is associated with the unity consciousness; it is the vibration that  allows you to see your true nature as a part of the universe. To reintroduce it to its natural frequency, give it the  experience of unity and bonding, from all directions. Give it the experience of your bliss.

Sound simple? It is. When you are aligned with your bliss instinct, you feel good. When you feel good, there is no confusion. This is only your yes  response: that  sense of calmness, relaxation, peace, euphoria, and clarity. As  your  inner and outer worlds align, your emotions  harmonize, your glands harmonize, and you can feel it on all levels of your being. And what may  surprise you, especially  if you have difficulty trusting yourself at first,  is how quickly you will feel your bliss instinct take over as your guide, as  the universe begins to conspire to move you in this direction.

Remember; focusing your attention to activate glands is the most powerful tool out there. You can activate the glands by giving it frequencies from medicine, homeopathy, herbs, all sorts of things, but it is not until we take control of our consciousness at all levels, and learn to communicate using sensations, that we see the game really change. Consciously identify and engage the glands. Engage your bliss. It’s about taking  the power back into your hands, and learning to activate  your body, heal your body, communicate with  your glands, and explore  the  sensations and vibrations that make up your existence.

About the author:

Indra Love

Indra (deceased) was the founder of the Full Spectrum Bliss®, a teaching organization dedicated to raising consciousness by incorporating scientific, metaphysical and ancient teachings on “bliss” to enhance sex, love, beauty, health and longevity.

With a background in Psychology and a Master’s degree in Communication, USDA and CDC funded graduate research in Ag and Applied Sciences, and corporate experience in both healthcare and not-for-profit organizations, Indra, with a team of like-minded people, devoted her life to teaching, research and development of the ultimate tools for human health, happiness and evolution which can be achieved by following the “physical instinct of bliss”.

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