6 Golden Statements for Handling Life Effectively!

November 23rd, 2024

By Paul A. Philips

Guest Writer for Wake Up World

Handling Life: Living a life based on chosen words or statements can be truly empowering. Words, when lived by, not only exist to create the future by taking actions consistent with what you said you’d do, but they also make things manifest with your conscious way of being.

Put another way, words serve as a self-fulfilling prophecy. So be careful with what you say, as it can affect the outcome… For example, the statement ‘it’s just my luck that…’ could manifest something undesired because you said that would happen!

Living and handling life based on recognising the power of your word can mean the difference between being at cause with things as opposed to allowing yourself to be subject to the unpredictable wheel of circumstance. Which will you choose?

So, bearing this in mind, here are my six golden statements for handling life effectively.

1. I am responsible

Responsibility, at least at times, can be quite misunderstood. To some, responsibility implies more burden and more problems to deal with… but it doesn’t have to be interpreted this way.

Responsibility is something to be wholly embraced. The more responsibility you embrace, the more control you have in your life. There are more options and operational gears to choose from.

2. I am self-sufficient

Self-sufficiency is the key to life-handling. How can you ever really grow when you’re not self-sufficient? Self-sufficiency is stability: having a job, enough money, plenty of food available, a satisfying, stable relationship, etc. For more on self-sufficiency, go here.

When people don’t achieve this, they spend most of their time stuck in fear, anxiety, uncertainty, doubt, and worry. They live one day at a time through a lack of… preventing real growth, no fulfillment, and a life that’s not nurturing while living in abundance.

3. If I can see it, I will be able to handle it

In other words, if there are things in life you can’t handle, it could be that you’re not aware of the full picture. If you can’t see it, then you can’t manage it.

For example, in business, companies know that having full visibility in the supply chain means minimising the risk. Or, if something is not working in your life, then it’s necessary to have the realization that something’s missing; that you need to look outside of your current paradigm and see the bigger picture.

Seeing the bigger picture could mean the difference between success and failure.

4. Face the communication

This golden statement can be compared to the old adage‘What you resist will persist,’ as in the case of communication. Someone willing to face communication with whatever shows up in life is a person well and truly committed to living life to the full!

Someone who shys away or will not deal with a particular area of communication will have difficult, confronting situations forever showing up in life as patterns related to what they will not face the communication in. This issue is bigger than many people realize.

For example, a woman who will not tolerate bad language around her will inevitably be forever shocked or offended.

Then there’s those who ‘dry up’ in the conversation because someone has touched upon certain areas they cannot confront… This one may be an ego issue…

Similarly, we live in a society that is forever trying to censor which has has been counterproductive, causing hypersensitivity over what your not allowed to say as in the case of, for example, of political correctness.

Sometimes, it is better to allow things to be said that are considered somewhat taboo, as this can serve as a training ground for someone to be more tolerant and learn how to respond to such issues effectively.

5. I will not be a victim

Life will show up as a consequence of where you are consciously at: That is, life manifests as a result of your attitude, thoughts, considerations, emotional behaviour, and feelings… If all this is associated with negativity, then you could well end up in situations created (manifested) by you where you’re a victim.

What goes on internally will manifest externally. It is important to know this when handling life.

Never underestimate the power of affirmation when handling life. Say to yourself, “I am empowered and take full responsibility for my life.” Ensure that your thoughts, considerations, attitude, emotional behavior, and feelings align with this empowering mindset, steering you away from victim consciousness. Hence, the affirmation, “I am empowered and take full responsibility for my life.”

Try thinking of a “solution” and then act on this instead of thinking of a “problem.”

Since the world’s population has a truly overwhelming number of victims, I would never underestimate this golden statement.

6. I am committed to…

It is effective to keep reiterating the statement “I am committed to… “ followed by whatever that commitment is. This serves to check yourself out and ensure that you really do have your intentions in mind for what you want to achieve through commitment.

So, there you have my six golden statements for handling life effectively!

Can you think of other unwavering golden statements to live by and commit to besides the above one?

To this end, I hope this has inspired and fired you up!

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About the Author:

My blogs, along with the related alternative news website iNewParadigm.com, are about my belief that we can create a world that makes a difference for everyone.

I had graduated in biomedical sciences and worked for a number of years in healthcare. I am now a retiree. My website is slanted on health matters.

However, over the years, I have come to the firm conclusion that practically every subject under the sun needs redefining using more truthful, honest, and integral approaches in theory and practice, hence the website’s name ‘New Paradigm’

From these new approaches, from the ‘imagination of ourselves,’ from our visions… a ‘new era’ in humanity can result!

This article was first published on iNewParadigm.com and republished here with permission.


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