Soul Mates, Twin Flame or Love Bite?

Soul Mates, Twin Flame or Love Bite

By Eve Lorgen

Guest Writer for Wake Up World

Have you ever had a love connection with someone so strong, you believed they could be your soul mate or even a twin flame? Did this person who you thought to be “the One”, arrive with a magical sense of reality, powerful psychic connections, super sexual chemistry, déjà  vus, omens and even supernatural overtones?

Perhaps you feel mystically connected on a deeper soul level, and yet there seems to be dangerousness about it. The passion may be unstoppable if you cross that line. Longing and passion builds as telltale signs appear that he or she must be “the One”.

A love drama unfolds with emotional highs, crashing lows and perhaps even paranormal activity. You find yourself doing things that you have never done with other partners. You take greater risks that may be out of character for you. The love affair becomes erratic, obsessive or you find you are unable to consummate. It is as if you and your lover are being buffeted around by unseen forces, from one exhausting drama to the next. It feels surreal, and orchestrated as if it is influenced from the beyond.

Or maybe it goes like this:

The Dark Side of Cupid

The meeting could be accidental, in an unusual place or situation for you. But somehow, something magically happens that creates an opportunity. Perhaps you sense a premonition, energetic feelings that seem to happen out of the blue. Then your eyes meet.

There is a sense of familiarity, as if you already know this strange new person, perhaps from another place or time. Yet, you can’t seem to place it. The locked gaze, the sensation of butterflies swirling in your stomach, the feeling of excitement, anxiety, andperhaps even danger all lurk inside you. You can barely contain the sense that something big is happening.

Maybe he or she asks you something that was on your mind, just as you were going to speak it. “Have we met before? You seem familiar.” A few moments pass, and maybe you experience a feeling of déjà  vu. Perhaps you recall a recent dream when you saw the face of your could-be lover. He or she is wearing the same color that appeared in your dream, or perhaps appears in a familiar scene. You now feel that the dream was some sort of divine precognitive foreshadowing. Your dream lover has come to life.

Your senses feel heightened, more alive. Those zingy, tingly, warm, and fuzzy feelings in your body seem to be resonating with this other person. Did you just meet The One? Your soul mate? Is this a sign that this person is about to enter center stage in your life? You exchange phone numbers and email. Next time you meet, you talk about things that you thought no one would ever really share with you, much less understand. You seem to have so much in common. Perhaps the person is not normally your type, yet inexplicably you share a powerful connection. The erotic fantasies begin. Somehow they feel so much more real. Why is that?

From deep inside, however, you feel a subtle hint of push-pull resistance. Your inner voice tries to check in with you, but you squash it like a bug. Your logical mind may question all this, but the lonely part of you can’t stop wanting excitement, a rescue from that hopeless feeling that you’ll never have true love and will always settle for less. You want to experience passion and love that you’ve never really known before. You fight both sides of yourself as if you’ve been split into two people. Confusion sets in, and you just can’t stop thinking about that person.

The Love Connection Begins and Cupid’s Drama Unfolds

A series of magical phone calls, texting, emailing, and meetings begin. Perhaps you are compelled to drive long distances or even go across the country to meet with your new-found lover-to-be. The energies of excitement build, and you can’t stop thinking about him or her, and especially about when you can have more time together to really connect, touch. Merge.

You never felt such a powerful connection with someone; it’s almost telepathic with supernatural overtones. You finish each other’s sentences, buy similar things at the store, find yourself wearing the same colors, and even eating the same food when not in each other’s’ presence, and at the same times.

That first kiss sends electrical thrills that zip right down to your erogenous zones. It’s almost like you’ve been zapped by Cupid’s arrow! You kiss again, deeply. It happens so easily, so fast. Sex feels so natural and connected. You find yourself doing things you didn’t do with other partners. You feel less inhibited and the creative juices flow. You take greater risks that may be out of character for you. You push away confusion and the inner red-flag voice flailing to be heard because, you say to yourself, “Yes! I’m going to follow my heart. I want passion!”

Now the roller coaster drama begins, and your life turns upside down. He or she makes you feel on top of the world, desired, cherished, and important. Events seem magically to unfold as though a divine script were being written that has pierced through the wall of your lonely heart. You are on a blissful high.

Yet it doesn’t last. Something happens. At some point, where you once felt excitement and passion, you wonder why you begin to feel weak and a little drained. Maybe your partner reveals a dark side. Emotional manipulation starts to unveil. Is your partner deliberately manipulating you like an emotional vampire, or does it just seem like it? You don’t want to believe it. The emotional crashing lows begin, and you start to feel that events are unfolding out of your control. Your partner’s full attention and presence seem to be out of your reach, and your life becomes an endless chase of unconsummated love.

Eventually, unrequited love pangs tear at your heart as you and your lover are buffeted about in one drama after another. In time, you become an emotional wreck. Confusion sets in and it seems as though every time you get near Cupid’s lover, you become weaker. You feel sucked dry of your emotions, logic, and better sense. What happened?”

Paranormal Interference

The passages above (‘The Dark Side of Cupid’ and ‘The Love Connection Begins…’)  are  excerpted from my 2012 book, “The Dark Side of Cupid: Love Affairs, the Supernatural and Energy Vampirism”. I was inspired to write this book after more than 15 years of research and counseling people with anomalous trauma. It usually revolved around those who have had paranormal experiences, and other dimensional visitations such as alien abductions. I discovered inadvertently through those who had multiple alien visitation histories, that they also exhibited an unusual kind of tagging by their “hyperdimensional watchers”.

These watchers had a means to pre-bond them to their future love partners, or to manipulate their relationships so that they would marry or meet a particular lover, often with obsessive, deep soul connected qualities. But then something else occurred which showed blatant forms of what I call emotional and psychic vampirism. Instead of a long lasting soul mate kind of experience, it took the form of a high drama – supernatural connection – that was endlessly being interfered with, so that a harmonious sacred love connection was hijacked or disrupted for some other purpose.

One partner would be switched off psychically/emotionally, and leave the other person in a state of unrequited love. Or one partner was somehow overshadowed by a “third party entity” such as a “reptilian” or other non-human inter-dimensional entity that used the ”hosted” partner as a portal for psychic and sexual energy feeding. A kind of “middleman” psychic vampire, energy harvesting operation. It was as if an invisible predatory force was literally using the love obsessed couple as a source of energy or entertainment.

Sometimes the paranormal interference came in the form of a definite third party entity, the presence of which was witnessed by one or both partners. For example an alien grey, reptilian, mantis, ET, spirit, or demon of some sort. This interference could occur surrounding the relationship itself, and yet remain unseen, but leave the sense that the couple is being watched or manipulated in a perverse kind of theatrical drama.

Red Flags of a ‘Dark Side of Cupid’ Connection

To distinguish these kinds of love relationships from “normal kinds of relationship issues” I devised a number of Red Flags for a Dark Side of Cupid Relationship:

• Dreams of the partner before meeting them, suggesting something precognitive.

• Physical sensations in the solar plexus, genital, gut or other body areas, such as neck, heart, and between the shoulders.

• Astral sex visitations and/or telesthesia — sensing the energy body in a sexual way and very physically, as if another being were present but invisible.

• Strong psychic connection, even though you may not really love your partner.

• Powerful sexual passion and obsessive need to have sex, even in cases in which you don’t love the partner or they don’t love you and/or are abusive.

• Psychic responses and coincidences from either partner, like receiving a phone call or email from your partner the moment you think about cutting off the connection.

• A sense of emotional or physical draining.

• One partner becoming suddenly switched off emotionally or “psychically unplugged.”

• Feelings of being watched, or being played like puppets in some drama-myth.

• Paranormal activity, third party “entity” visits or attacks, sudden dreams, visions and thoughts as if implanted.

• Obsessive thoughts that are not usual for either partner

• Synchronicities, omens, and a feeling of being in a magical reality.

The Unholy Triad of the Dark Side of Cupid

To simplify the dynamics of these dark cupid love affairs. I put together three main categories of characteristics of these forged connections: The Unholy Triad of the Dark Side of Cupid. If two of the three main sets of symptoms were present, then that relationship is most likely a “Love Bite/Dark Cupid” connection. The Unholy Triad is:

1. Magical or Supernatural Elements
2. Emotional Highs and Crashing Lows and/or Signs of Energy Draining
3. Emotional Manipulation and the Psychopathology Element

If only the magical and supernatural elements are present without the other two elements, then that relationship could very well be a true soul mate or twin flame connection. But it really is two of the three elements noted and especially the third aspect of manipulation and psychopathology that is the tell-tale sign, this relationship is being manipulated.

Oftentimes this psychopathology aspect manifests as a narcissistic quality or borderline personality disorder, a Dr. Jeckyl/Mr. Hyde kind of persona that can leave the love bitten person utterly bewildered, and in unimaginable hurt and unbearable grief. If you’ve ever read about narcissistic abuse and the aftermath of this kind of crazy-making relationship, then you can get an idea of the utter shock and emotional devastation that this kind of “manipulated relationship” can bring.

Some readers may pause now and rationalize that this is simply a poor relationship choice with an emotionally abusive, personality disordered person. But I assure you, it is really not that simple. These things can co-exist in a “Dark Cupid” relationship, but the true sign is the paranormal anomalies that eventually manifest during this kind of relationship. I have described these kinds of relationships in detail in my book from the perspective of a clairvoyant “bird’s eye view”, and in easily recognizable interpersonal psychology dynamics. What I discovered was really a sign of sexual and psychic energy vampirism that is mediated through some sort of other dimensional predatory beings.

It was only apparent when so many witnesses over the years came forward who had “extrasensory faculties” and actually saw these other dimensional beings overshadowing or lurking around them or their “partner”   Some could perceive cords of energy linking them and their partner and another entity such as a “reptilian”. Others had distinct solar plexus sensations and even grinding pain, after linking up with their “possessed partner”. Some were perceptive enough to actually see in visions and dreams how they were being set up in magic love spells cast by a sorcerer or witch. Some love bite experiencers had these kinds of relationships several times, and seemed to be plagued by a “familiar spirit”, “alien watcher” or bloodline curse that affected them and everyone in their family.

And yet I have consulted with people who do not fall into the “anomalous trauma” category of alien abductions or a regular “paranormal experiencer” kind-of-person, and yet had a full-blown Dark Cupid love connection that hurt them in ways that defied rational explanation. One witness, who has gone public with his testimony admitted that the love bite relationships only happened after he had published serious research on “UFO’s, Alien Contact and Conspiracy Topics”.

The Power of Sacred Love and Twin Flames

I have also come to hypothesize that there are some “other dimensional forces” which seek to destroy true, sacred love and especially the meeting and consummation of twin flame relationships. Sacred love, sexuality and the alchemical transformation of male/female “shakti” energies is a very powerful thing. In some cultures – in India for example – the entire reason for Jeevan Mukti yogic practice is to become enlightened when one successfully unites with their twin flame Ardhanishwara.

In ancient Greek culture the Hieros Gamos is the same kind of mystical union between twin flame souls, resulting in great transformation, even Gnosis and enlightenment. In Tibetan Buddhism we have Annuttara yoga tantra. In Taoist Chi Gong there are alchemical sexual practices both internal and external for the purpose of greater spiritual awareness and immortality. In all of these practices true love is essential for transformation to higher consciousness.

In Taoist myth as well as other myths around the world, humans were once androgynous, but then the genders were split, due to some kind of “fall from grace”. In the Greek myth told by Aristophanes the split arose as a punishment from the “gods” because they became “jealous” and feared humans having too much power in their androgynous state. And so the primordial, androgynous human was split into two souls and placed into different gendered bodies.

I personally believe this gender split is much more complex than the extant ancient writings tell us, and can even involve some kind of extraterrestrial genetic engineering such as is hypothesized in the Wes Penre Papers.

Many of my clients have wondered why it took so long to “get over” a love bite relationship, even if it was short lived. Some think that their lover is being deliberately oppressed and manipulated by dark spiritual forces so that their true twin flame connection cannot be experienced or consummated. It is as if the couple—or one partner—is being held “hostage” by these predatory entities. When one partner “switches off” or is really being manipulated to reject the true love union, it’s also known as the twin flame runner syndrome. Although I wonder if some therapists of these unusual soul mate connections really know what may be going on behind the scenes.

Could these relationships be salvaged into harmonious, blissful and powerful unions?

Modalities like compassionate communication and applying the relationship gender understandings of John Gray (Men are from Mars, Women from Venus series), are immensely supportive and can help, but the real hurdle is usually getting both partners to even agree to any kind of therapy. Oftentimes one partner is too proud, fearful or downright arrogant to even admit to something ‘strange’ going on and refuses to engage willingly into any kind of therapeutic work. I contend that there is much more to these kinds of paranormally influenced love connections, and we must find healing therapies that really work. In The Dark Side of Cupid I offer psychological and paranormal intervention strategies to help the broken-hearted heal from these extraordinarily painful and baffling relationships. The best strategy and protection from a dark cupid relationship is awareness that this even exists.

I believe it is true that knowledge is power. But there is something else even greater, and that is sacred love. Sacred love should be protected, nurtured and valued above all things on heaven and Earth. It is truly a mystery, that apparently other dimensional beings since ancient times have wanted to hijack, mimic, exploit and corrupt. This is the war of all wars!

I believe once we become aware of this interference into our most intimate relationships, we do have choices – we are not powerless!

About the author:

Eve Lorgen, M.A., CHt.Eve Lorgen M.A., CHt. is the author of the books The Love Bite: Alien Interference of Human Love Relationships (Elogos and HHC, 2000) and The Dark Side of Cupid: Love Affairs, the Supernatural and Energy Vampirism (Keyhole Publishing, 2012). Eve is a 20-plus year researcher and hypnotherapist in anomalous trauma. This spectrum includes alien/ET encounters, paranormal experiences, milabs (military abductions), and other dimensional visitations. The focus of her two books reveal taboo aspects of how love relationships have been
orchestrated, interfered with or disrupted by paranormal sources.

Eve also holds a B.S. in Biochemistry as well as a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology. Her scientific and intuitive skills have  contributed to her success in understanding these otherworldly experiences. While research is important, her priority is in support, in  healing, and empowered sovereignty for her clients. Her inspiration into the anomalous started early in life with her own paranormal experiences. Eve says the inspiration for her own work came through the work of the late Dr. Karla Turner and the UFO and alien abduction researcher, Barbara Bartholic.

You can connect with Eve via her website


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  • eevie

    Eve is the leading authority on love bites. Thank you. Personally, i don’t think real twin flames exist. Every and i mean every relationship i have ever had was a love bite. I am finished with 3d relationships. 🙂 I am fine alone and actually prefer it more and more these days. I know many are going thru the same. 🙂

    • Sif

      Eevie you just got to still believe in true sacred love. My last relationship was exactly how Eve described, very intense but shortlived, happended almost 10 years back and i still can ´t forget her, have not been able to have closure (also a part still believes it ´s possible, as the one, that needs to be rescued). Her father was a medium for the ET, but was shot and killed for what he would do ( I ´m sure he visited me asking if i really loved his daughter like in a lucid dream, but i wasn ´t dreaming). I don ´t want to specify much deeper but lets say this is a very mystical and influenced person by family and location (said to be a vortex/underground mirror-portal city to aliens). I know and believe that I ´ll in some point in my life be with that special ONE.

    • Danielle

      This article puts everything into its proper perspective.
      It’s a crazy thing, this love bite…
      There is most certainly manipulation taking place within these relationships, where our energy is being harvested.
      The love bite acts as a syphon and also a diversion from God.
      It is unholy, unjust.
      My Twin acts as the Predator now, refusing to let me out of his life, he is totally obsessed with me & is completely at the mercy of the demonic forces that control him.
      He is lost in darkness and really needs help. He’s completely lost his mind. I think he’s been leeching off me for a very long time. Now that I’m trying to detach myself, the only way he can maintain the link to me and leech my energy, which feeds the vampiric entity that controls him, is to stalk me. It’s a pretty messed up situation, since he is in fact my Twin.
      My Twin is a rogue psychopath.
      I pray for him.

  • Rowan

    Thank you very much for the article, another interesting read. I had many out of the ordinary experiences as a child, meeting many beautiful angelic and star beings. I was cared for and protected out of divine love from my star family. I met my TF through obscure circumstances, just over 15 months ago. After the amazing new experience we felt with one another we both did push and pull the relationship into old ways until we both let go of our ego. There were indeed entities manipulating us, I’m fortunate to have had a good friend who removed them until I could do the same. We were both manipulated to have shields placed on us form the draconian race to syphon our love energy prior to incarnating as a signed contract, they are now recently removed. The Draconian’s are a loveless race that need our love energy to survive. We were told/manipulated by their shape shifting abilities and were convinced we needed them to protect our love from the hurtful people from earth. it is more involved than that. My twin and I share unconditional love and trust for each other, the energy we share when together is indescribable and is always present when we are apart. I am happy to say we have had more loving fun times.We met up to merge, heal and share ourselves, its awesome and still feels like a brand new relationship. We did have a short period of darkness, which had been devastatingly horrible but divine love over comes any and everything and we did very quickly. We recognised what the entities were doing removed them and are planing to marry in 2015. I also found if you are in this type of partnership your friends or family wont get it, so don’t bother trying to explain it to them. They will just criticise as they cannot comprehend the energy we have with our TF. Do some research and find people who are in a simular situation as you if that will help but best of all follow your own heart. You will come into harmony and unite with your TF. Don’t blame them for anything or criticize because they are not behaving in ways you think they should. Friends would say, how can you love and forgive him so easily every time. I would say, well if i don’t love or forgive him I am not loving or forgiving myself. It made sense to me as he is me and i am him <3<3

    • Namrata

      ROWAN can you tell me who helped you out? I need help 🙁

  • Maressa

    Wow. This hit the nail in the head to describe my past relationship – which lasted 4 years of the above mentioned qualities complete with all three “dark Cupid” triad symptoms. With help from a friend who was privy to paranormal, extrasensory and energetic awareness coupled with holistic healing “self realization” modalities I was able to see this relationship for what it was, clear the cords, protect myself in an energetic way and eventually and continually raise my vibration so that the other abusive party no longer had any way to relate to me. Phew. Our relationship ended with him breaking up with me!! This happened the day before I was to start my Reiki 1 training. No coincidence there I believe.
    5 months later I met the partner I am to marry now (we’ve been together 4 years now) and althought “stuff” came up for me to heal and work through in this relationship to heal from the last without a doubt this is a real, healthy, soul mate connection (I think I know the difference at this point after such an extreme ha!).
    All in all….these relationship paradigms even including other entity infiltration CAN BE OVERCOME. It takes diligence, someone to talk to outside the relationship, and constant energetic evaluation and self centering.
    Thanks for this opportunity to read an article that so accurately portraysy past experience better than I could have written it. I hope others reading this can gain insight and assistance into how to help themselves understand and heal.

  • Myra

    BUT Aren’t we powerless?!
    What could one do if the other is just out of any kind of reach?

    It’s been 2 years since I met this guy. We experienced everything you said here. I am the one whos more mystically open to this, and I knew it from the very start of our disharmonies. He really loved me. Some other parties were trying to harvest our energy through swings and other such stuff, and when it was clear from both of us that we are not interested, they started the attack. From then on we started to fight. He started to emotionally turn off, then getting on, then turning off. He was fighting them for sure! But eventually they won. He asked aggressivelly that we break up, when I become centered and powerfull, and when I was offering my love only with a kind of signature only for his true soul to recieve. Of course the predator got mad for starving and pushed me away. It’s been a year and few months since we’re apart. I feel the same love. The deep connection soul mentally. I feel his love too. But he is now under control. We met few times, he is so paradoxically in between personalities. He always needed some women to have sex with because the predator neeeded to just feed. But I’m sick of it. I’m literally angry! I’ve done everything I knew. I tried everything! paranormal or not! I’ve been through hell, and the pain is just as you say, unbearable. I cannot save him from that demon, he doesn’t want to be saved. He likes it. And as if this wasn’t enough I just cannot expect to want a normal relationship now, after I have experienced such deep and high love. I’m certain it was true love. But just as you said: it was Hijacked! So how are we not powerless? I had to let him go. If you know concrete solutions, just tell us.

    • Danielle

      Its all about keeping humanity enslaved AND DISEMPOWERED. Love cannot be true without Gods blessing via marriage, otherwise love will be thwarted by demons and alien parasites. The demonic parasite attached itself to me & my Twin when I was 13. It has fed upon our souls for a long time. The parasite must be starved to death for both of us to live and be free from alien slavery. The more powerful I get the more powerful are the attacks from the angry greedy starving malicious demon which has taken over my twin. It battles me thru my twin since its the only way it can stay alive, continuously stealing from me. It is a battle, which I am determined to win, to regain and retain everything I am. It is happening. It begins with the empowered fearless woman, who is the real protector of man. Men don’t protect women… how can they when they can barely protect themselves? Woman must take back her power from her Twins controller. Step into her power and not shy away from who she is. This relationship is all about self love. The twin relationship is learning about what love isn’t so that we can learn to love and respect ourselves. Once we truly love ourselves, absolutely nothing, no alien or demonic force will be able to harness itself to us to leech, to feed. We will be free in self love. Free and invincible with an unbreakable heart. Forget your twin and learn how to love yourself. Circumcise all thoughts of your twin because it only feeds the demon that would steal away your light, thereby empowering demonic interference by feeding it with your energetic thought forms. Bring all your attention to yourself, and give nothing to your twin if you are not together in a harmonious mutually empowering relationship. Give everything you have to yourself, which will loosen the grip of the darkness and liberate you to love from a much more grounded, centered place. All power comes from God, the Creator of all things. We align ourselves with God, we align ourselves with love itself. Prioritise your love! Love God and you will love yourself as well, you will fall in love with yourself and be happy, and never be sad or lonely again. Imagine seeing yourself thru God’s eyes….

      • Light Tranquil

        Hi Danielle,
        Your comment is worth my visit here. In my case, I was the one feeding my own energy to the devil for quite sometime through emotional outbursts. But now I am fine & have regained perspective. My (supposed) twin isn’t available to me now but I feel more open to love now than before. I will use my power for myself and not for others now onwards.
        Thanks a ton for this comment.

      • Abdala Kaufmann

        Thank you

  • Name Leigha

    This is the story of my life!!! I am so glad I came across this, and I know it’s no accident. I am literally in the process of finally leaving a 13yr relationship with my 1st love. I literally started packing my stuff yesterday! 🙁 my heart is broken, I do love him and the amount of pain I have is unbelievable!!! It’s utter sorrow from the depths of my soul but I just can’t do it anymore. Reading this is such an eyeopener because most of it describes us to a T! The connection, including extraordinary abilities, the very strong love bond, so much so I really don’t want to leave him and I wish it wasn’t this way; but I know I must! My soul is crying out! Of course there is the drama, lots and lots of drama and outside influences. Now I’m on the path to going through some MAJOR healing and trying to move forward in my life. Thank you for this artical, it makes so much sence!

  • Light Tranquil


    Your article points at the other side story and it is an interesting concept. I having visited lots of articles recently on this twin flames topic, have only come across this thing being called pure love. I had a horrible emotional outburst for a long time in the past. I thought of someone being my twin flame and the separation caused much pain. However, after it had reached a boiling point I achieved an emotional balance. Although I came to know of my connection with this twin much later in life, post we met (met only as acquaintances & I didn’t understand anything then). So luckily, not much dignity was compromised on. Your informative article now makes me think if the twin flame thing about this person was any true or was I just being a puppet in the hands of negative forces. However, after I regained mental balance I did jot down some points that I had learnt from this emotional outburst & I am begining to being a better person. This twin is now unavailable for me. But just for clarity purposes I would really like to know the truth of the matter. I request you to, if possible, bring some clarity on this for me on a personal level. Is there a sure way to know?

    Light Tranquil

    • Alex

      Wow. Literally the EXACT same thing happened to me. I met someone and we were both intensely attracted to each other. I have never felt anything like it before in my entire life. It felt amazing and yet nothing happened between us. We were unable to express the way that we felt for whatever reason and I couldn’t get myself to ask her out. This ended up torturing me for a long time. Some of the most excruciating pain of my life. I wonder if this was my actual Twin Flame or not just like you. I would love to just move on, but if she really was my Twin then maybe we should be together. I don’t know.

      • Ash

        Hi i went through a similar experience as you 🙂

  • Nancy van der Bijl

    The Unholy Triad of the Dark Side of Cupid relationship i have.

    The last 2 sympthoms are relevant for me.
    I thought he was the one 17 years ago but know am not sure. I find it hard to make a dicision cause sometimes we have fun and he is the loving husband. Then of a sudden he is angry at everything and everyting i do is wrong. He is not abusive but gives me a real bad feeling when he is angry.

    Its more difficult because i am HSP, its really hard.

    Kind regards


    • Nancy van der Bijl

      I think he is a narcist. Loves attention from everybody and women in particually. He says one thing but does the other thing.


  • Dena

    Holy Crap!!

    Did I ever just experience this!!

    I even saw the entity and mentioned it to my partner.

    We were friends before and somehow are holding on to the friendahip, so if there is an entity, it is starving, because we both recognized it as somewhat frightening and ended it mutually…

    The piece of the puzzle not presented here is our connection to Mother Earth, from who’s body comes our bodies…

    Our main body, Earth, of which we are cells, could use that energy directed towards her.

    When we pray to “God” outside of ourselves, well, it is outside of ourselves.

    If we acknowledge our connection to the entity our bodies come from – our Mother, Earth, and send our energy inside, towards Her, those energies get smooshed away as we go back inside ourselves.

    Being with this person opened a vision of my energy and being able to see it. Watching it go away like into a black hole if I pray to a God outside myself, and seeing it swirl in place, no black hole, when praying to Mother Earth and sending Her my love with my heart…

    I saw all this aa it was unfolding, and stayed detached through that love for Mother. Still had tons of drama, but it did not get me in the long run.

    Love of the Mother, who gives us her flesh to make our bodies, gives us our food water air and fire, is our connection to Self.

  • Lori

    Unfortunately, all of my relationships throughout my life have been like this. I’m finally taking control and seeing a shamanic healer. I, do believe in cosmic relationships but most of the time I thought I had one, I was being played. Wool over eyes…it’s such a great feeling when it lifts and the waters become clear.

  • Miroku Heishi

    Do you believe one can have more than one soul mate in on life from previous incarnations?!

  • Miroku Heishi

    I meant to say “in one life from”

  • Kayla

    I don’t think soul mates are suppose to end up together. I met a guy once and I still think about him every once in a while. The connection really was out of this world. I was so pulled to him and him to me. But for whatever reason I dated someone else over him. Looking back though I know we could have never made it work but it’s so strange to me. Because the feelins we had and the connection and yearning for him deep inside… It was everything that I always thought true love was suppose to feel like. The way we just flowed together in bed and conversation. Sometimes it drives me nuts thinking about him.

  • Miroku Heishi

    Eve do you think a person can have more than one soul mate (especially if they’re from different life times).

    • EmmettGrogan

      Yes, definitely we have more than one soul mate! We have lots and sometimes entire groups of people reincarnate together.

  • Michelle Abrahmz

    The article talks about people being tagged or “pre-bonded” by the aliens, to cause these two people to come together so the aliens can feed. In the tagging, these two people are given a feeling that this person is their meant-to-be twin flame, or life partner.

    That to me sounds like this is a false twin flame relationship. That actually you are NOT twin flames. That you have both been sought out and tagged to be together, by the interference of others. That perception that you are twin flames – even after walking away – is part of the illusion these aliens create.

    If this perfectly describes your relationship, then you can KNOW this person is NOT your true, intended twin flame, but a false created, exactly so the Others can feed.

  • Ulf Haukenes

    Physical sensations as described here-in are also part of a true twin flame connection/union NOT relationship. For anyone interested in the real deal twin flame material and not all the hokey pokey out there….
    This article is how a true twin flame initiation feels like 100%…….

  • Helen

    My partner and I have experienced exactly this, we met and it was incredible, like nothing ever even though he was 19 years older than me (43 and 62), it was as if we should have met years ago, as if we should be together to eternity. But I started blocking and pushing him away, I have no idea why other than the sexual abuse I suffered as a child, but I thought I was over that, he was sexually abused as a child too, he had not go over his, so I thought I could see where his mista=akes were coming from. We split briefly and he went out for sex with others, we stayed friends and tried again,I knew his heart was with me only and as much as we wanted it to work it was like an invisible force was keeping us apart. We set up so much together and worked well together, he said it was like there was someone watching over me making things happen that we wanted, but even so this entity was ripping us apart.
    He died a week ago of a sudden heart attack, I can feel him here in spirit and know he has something to tell me, he has not gone over yet. Finding this article felt like fate, like he had put it on my timeline for me to see. I just wish we had both seen this sooner. Life is very very cruel indeed and I will never find another like him.

    • Hi Helen,

      We are so sorry for your loss. Yes, life can be very cruel.

      We are thinking of you, and your beloved, at this very sad time.

      Sending you lots of love and light Helen,

      Meagen @ WUW

  • Tania

    I’d really like to say this sort of thing doesn’t happen, but I had a connection with an energy vampire that fits 90% of this description. I’m an empath. I don’t normally tell people that I am but he knew I was one, and he made some sort of creepy energy connection to me. I would not believe it if it hadn’t happened to me. Nothing to do with aliens, etc. but I did have a premonition that if I spoke to him, everything would change. It didn’t seem like a positive premonition. What happened was negative, and then I turned it positive by using it to better myself. It was overall really quite weird and creepy…

  • Siobhan Raymond

    oh.. my… god…
    i am experiencing all of this RIGHT NOW. I am reading this and couldn’t believe i came across it right now.. this is so surreal. I am going thru all of this and I have been wondering what is going on.. i thought that it was the meaning of life intervening.. never thought that it was other forces though.. this is crazy!

    even the unconsumation i was having SUCH a hard time with because i wanted it sooooo bad from him, but have never wanted it so bad from anyone in my life and he wouldn’t give it up to me because of his drug addiction (I later figured out)

  • Siobhan Raymond

    Oh my gosh! I am experiencing this right now! I can not believe i am reading this.. i was wondering what was happening with my life. i thought that it was just life and the way things were supposed to go and maybe we have like destiny that pushes and pulls us is what i sort of thought.. but i never thought it could be some other type of force! this is crazy brilliant!

    The emotional manipulation is something that i have been fighting with him for and begging for him to stop for months and months!

    The sex thing.. OH my gosh! I have NEVER wanted anyone so bad in my LIFE! And he would not give it to me! It was so weird.. (I later come to find out its because of drugs..) but i would fight and fight for it and tell him i needed it so bad from him it was so weird i never felt this way before!

    And I was JUST looking up narcissistic traits about two or three days ago realizing that this was him and his behavior (along with a crazy crazy drug addiction) and it was weird the time i would come across these posts.. as if they were thrown into my lap at the right time. and so many things would happen during the relationship that would make it seem like we were supposed to be there at that exact moment… because i would always question.. should i be here? should i be putting up with this for HIM?! and then the tv or something would say EXACTLY the same thing as me at the same time. or we would get in a fight and i would storm out of the room, and the tv would talk to him or vice versa..
    this is all just so weird but makes so much sense!

    • Sean Kaye

      I feel the same way. I’ve been thinking about a girl that I’ve known for a while and I feel that she is the one, but she has a boyfriend that she’s been with for a while and it just doesn’t seem right to feel this way. I feel that the world has been telling me to forget about her and go one living my life but all the pressure has really gotten me thinking about her more and it has driven me to unhealthy lifestyle choices. I used to smoke weed but it caused too much paranoia but all the stress of the world saying NO and forget about her has really got me confused and wanting to use other drugs and I just don’t know how to cope anymore. I’m not alone in this world because I have loving friends and family that cares but sometimes I wish I could be alone and figure out things for myself.

  • Shelley M

    So, I was with you until the alien stuff. I was amazed when I started reading this as I have had that exact relationship experience…all of it. However, I have never to my knowledge been abducted by, looked at, experimented on, taken by, interacted with, or otherwise met with an alien.

  • Padge Vounder

    I meet these amazing women every few years, instant connection, like we’ve known each other before, and it’s so intense, with the attraction, the chemistry, the sex. Feels so natural together with them like we’re kindred souls. Then some bad circumstances gets in the way, not us failing each other in the relationships, but some outside force. I feel like I’m cursed. Family members or friends playing the spoiler, people having to move far away, family crisis. I don’t know how many times my sensitive heart can break and heal again. Amazing when it’s going well, devastating when it ends.

  • Mieke

    so, … what do i do? I think i’m possessed by something .. the girl i’m seeing said she saw someone else in me the other day. And i’m emotionaly bouncing up and down and beginning to be obsessed with her. One day we were eyegazing … and i saw some weird demons when looking at her face. I was pretty scared but in so much possesion that i didnt even care if she is a demon or not. She’s telling me that there’s a dark energy trying to get me.
    So what do i do? She’s the first girl after seven years of being alone.

  • Hector Vértiz Moncada

    ¿And there’s nothing we can do about it? i really love her, iv’e tried my best and i can’t do it…

    ¿How we can make these entities go? we are not together anymore but i want to help her, i know she is still being manipulated and i want to do something about it, please, help!

  • Carol S Dansereau

    I’m afraid that I am living this. Me & my partner were musician/acquaintances for 20 yrs. About 5 yrs ago, he got me to join his band. it was platonic & professional at first & he treated me with respect. Surprisingly, out of the blue, he suddenly pursued me with total confidence. We had similar values & interests & talked well. It was amazing! At first he was fun, sweet & affectionate & he got me a ring. We got engaged. About a yr. later he quit kissing me.The negative, scarier stuff has been happening for around 4 yrs now. I’ve even felt spiritual attacks by a parasitic spirit(?) trying to seduce me – while I was in bed with him. He’s been attacked also on other occasions in this house. We started out connecting so well – then, out of the blue, after about a year, he quit communicating with me altogether- or listening at all. I’ve written many lyrics about this- one is called ‘Dead Ringer’ about the guy that seems to have replaced the one that used to love me. It was sudden – almost overnight. Honestly, he seems like a whole different person. He’s brooding & joyless, & phony. I don’t think Iv ever witnessed such apathy before in my life. He has violent dreams but won’t talk about them.(or anything deep) I feel abandoned & trapped. My health has been going- one thing after another, and this is not the norm for me. Also, I became obsessed with taking photos of sunsets & clouds & I’ve noticed on many occasions- there are anomalies in the sky-in my photos. Objects that I didn’t notice or see while I was taking them -later showing up on the computer monitor. I guess I sense this & photograph them- without being aware of it at the time. My partner owns a cabin on private land way deep in the woods & he & his family have mostly joked, but talked about alien presence & abductions.
    I’m 55 but I’ve lost 3 siblings already here in this city..I just want to get out of here alive & I’m beginning to feel panicked. I’m not even sure what I can or should do.

  • Daisy

    There are demons that walk amongst us…many of us know this…many of us have seen their eyes in a humanbeing, shuddered & shrugged it off as an illusion. Many of us have known people, who seem to have changed into someone/something else, overnight…Some of us know….some of us suspect, many, oblivious.
    They feed on the oblivious, and love to play with those who also have no clue of the darkness that roams the earth…They torture those who suspect, and go for full destruction for those that know….You, who see them…see you too….they donot like that…demons pray on the weak…you who see/feel them are strong…so they use the ultimate weapon….passion…..and that is our most highest form of torture and destruction….like playing with a piece of meat infront of a starving tiger in a cage…..I know I will pay for this message, and I donot care. I have fought them since a child…I have no fear of these dispicable things that thrive off human emotions, and cause so much unhappiness, pain & suffering….You, all of you, that read this, DONOT FEAR, THIS IS THEIR KEY TO YOUR SOUL….read the piece above, let it sink in…take it as a warning if you have not yet experienced this, and protect yourself with what you already own; purity & love. For those who have….you have survived the darkest evil on this planet…you have nothing more to fear, but fear itself. Stand up, let your hearts glow with infinate love and joy….these black creatures hate that so very much….they will never do you harm again. Love and Peace to you all. Together we are Infinately Stronger than they.
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  • Cheryl Rossin

    So how do we fight back? After reading this I know I have my twin flame, something got alhold of him, and he has cut all communication off. We met in Mexico 20 years ago where we were both on vacation(he is from Mexico I from Canada) we had an instant connection both sexual and emotional. It was so intense. But because of the time where we depended on snail mail and the telephone and my young age(18) we let go of each other. Now 20 years later a Facebook message brought us back to each other. We fell right back into an emotional affair(we are both married-same month same year) all of the feelings were there even though we were just connected through the Internet. I could feel his touch, smell him and he said I affected him the same way. But a month ago he started to act different and cold , then one day all communication ceased.
    My question is this, is there anything I can do to get it back? Or has our time come to an end again?

  • Pericles Bacchus

    Hi Eve. I have just read this. And it sounds a lot like what has happened to me since November. We met on a site. And I went to his place. Once he opened the door and our eyes met there was an instant attraction. I saw it in his eyes, and he in mine. It was something magical, and mysterious. We talked, we drank, we confided in each other. The intensity was beyond anything I’d ever had, and I’ve had some powerful experiences in my life. He was as smitten, though it’s not a strong enough word. But within a short period of time, outside forces in his life began to cloud him. We talked, a lot. I was adamant about going slow. He reluctantly agreed. We spent many days and nights talking until the sun came up. Sometimes we didn’t need to talk, we just knew what the other was feeling or thinking. Then the roller coaster began. He was confused, wanted me, but found excuses to make that kept us apart. I made it clear I didn’t expect anything from him, just honesty. This became a problem. 4 months later, he became even more distant, right on the heels of declaring his love for me. And how he wanted us to be together. After easter, sex stopped. He became addicted to alcohol, poker machines, and antidepressants, at the urging of an older man in his life. His dark side emerged strongly then, and it has been harder and harder. To the point I now only hear from him when he needs something. He seldom looks me in the eye. And admits he is lost. I feel keenly their are dark forces at work in and around him.We used to text and call each other anytime and all night if we weren’t together. I have now accepted I must let him go. As I must think of my own well being. He will not take any advice, nor will he talk to me the way we used to. But he won’t say it’s over either. I have agonised over this for two months. And am now resigned to losing him. As I feel that by staying around I am not helping either of us. I pray for the light, God or whatever you want to call it to illuminate his heart and mind, even if we are not together, so that he finds himself. I have had powerful dreams that are not dreams, of he and I, lucid dreams if you like. I hope for the best for him. But am helpless to save us. I can only save myself at this stage. What, if anything, can I do? Regards Perry.

  • Adrien Lassange

    OMG! But how do we know whom is whom?? I mean I think I might be the one draining and feeding or the means to it, I think I was the sorcerer calling him but then it tuns out that he has some darkness by himself so I wanted to finish this and now non of us both can. I continue to make him think about me and feel me and this of course don’t make me forget him.

    So are we being played of is it me trying to take his energy? But then I’m affected and tired too.
    I found my self some times trying to wake him up at night at a distance; he is en Europe and I’m in America; I made him come for a second time after we met and the first time were casualties and synchronicities everywhere but at the beginning I felt in control and now I think I’m being affected as well.