Are These 7 Spiritual Beliefs Blocking Your Awakening?

May 13th, 2025

By Frank M. Wanderer PhD

Guest writer for Wake Up World

Spiritual awakening is a deep inner process in which an individual realizes their true nature, transcends the illusions created by the ego, and gradually moves into a state of unity. However, many people fall into the trap of beliefs that, although they may seem spiritual, actually hinder this development.

These beliefs subtly and often unconsciously influence one’s thinking and, paradoxically, keep them from true liberation. Below, we examine seven spiritual beliefs that may obstruct awakening.

1. Enlightenment Is a Future Goal

Many believe that enlightenment is a distant goal that can only be reached through years of meditation, practice, or special experiences. This belief suggests that awakening is something to be achieved in the future, while in reality, enlightenment can only ever be experienced in the present moment. If someone is constantly chasing a future state, they prevent themselves from realizing their true nature here and now.

Solution: Realize that truth is always in the present. Deep understanding does not happen in the future but unfolds in the now.

2. Spiritual Awakening Is Only for Special People

It is a common belief that enlightenment is only available to a select few—saints, masters, or dedicated yogis. This belief places liberation outside oneself, making people doubt their own ability to realize the Self.

Solution: Truth is present in everyone, and awakening is not an elitist process. One does not need to be special—only sincere and open to inner exploration.

3. A Spiritual Life Is Always Peaceful and Harmonious

Many believe that enlightenment is a state in which suffering, conflict, or difficulties no longer arise. This belief paints an idealized but false picture of the spiritual path. True awakening does not mean avoiding duality but understanding and transcending it. Emotions, pain, and challenges will still exist, but they will no longer be experienced through the filter of the ego.

Solution: Accept that spiritual growth is not about experiencing only peace and joy but about fully embracing and witnessing all aspects of life without judgment.

4. Enlightenment Is Tied to Experiences

Some believe that enlightenment is an intense mystical experience that must be attained through meditation or other spiritual practices. While profound spiritual experiences exist, they do not necessarily signify awakening. Those who seek such experiences often remain trapped in the mind, creating a new form of attachment that prevents true realization.

Solution: Understand that enlightenment is not a special experience but the recognition of who you are, beyond any experience. It is the realization of pure awareness itself.

5. The Spiritual Path Requires the Complete Destruction of the Ego

A common misconception is that enlightenment requires the total annihilation of the ego. While the ego is an illusion, this does not mean that the individual ceases to exist in the physical world. The ego is a tool that helps navigate daily life; it is not the enemy. The problem is not the existence of the ego but identifying with it and believing that it is all that we are.

Solution: Recognize that the ego is not an enemy but a function that can be consciously used. It does not need to be destroyed—only seen through.

6. After Enlightenment, All Problems Disappear

This belief suggests that if one awakens, all difficulties in life—financial struggles, conflicts, or physical pain—will vanish. However, this is not how it works. The world remains as it is, but one’s inner relationship with it changes. Enlightenment does not mean magically altering external circumstances, but no longer being identified with them.

Solution: Accept that awakening is not about changing the outer world but about shifting one’s inner perspective.

7. Spiritual Awakening Means There Is Nothing More to Do

Some believe that once awakened, they no longer need to do anything—no work, relationships, or responsibilities. This is a distorted view that can lead to avoidance. Awakening is not about withdrawing from the world but engaging with it from a new perspective.

Solution: Understand that an enlightened person still acts, but no longer from egoic motivation. Actions flow naturally from the movement of life itself.

Conclusion

The path of spiritual awakening is full of challenges, and often, the greatest obstacles are the very beliefs we consider spiritual truths. True realization does not lie in clinging to these beliefs but in transcending them. When we let go of preconceived ideas about what awakening “should” look like, we open ourselves to the truth, which is always here and now

Excerpt from Frank M. Wanderer’s new book, Sabotaged Enlightenment: The Invisible Obstacles to Spiritual Awakening

About the author:

Frank M. Wanderer, Ph.D, is a professor of psychology, a consciousness researcher and writer, and the publisher of several books on consciousness. With a lifelong interest in the mystery of human existence and the work of the human mind, Frank’s work is to help others wake up from identification with our personal history and the illusory world of the forms and shapes, and to find our identity in what he calls “the Miracle”, the mystery of the Consciousness.

You can follow Frank online at:

• Website – fmwanderer.wordpress.com
• powerofconsciousness.blogspot.com
• Facebook.com/AwakeningOfTheConsciousness
• https://x.com/FrankMWanderer
• Facebook.com/Frank-M-Wanderer

Frank is also the author of the following books:

• The Revolution of Consciousness: Deconditioning the Programmed Mind
• The Flames of Alertness: Discover the Power of Consciousness!
• The Biggest Obstacle to Enlightenment: How to Escape from the Prison of Mind Games?
• The Path Of New Age To Unity
• The Signs Of Spiritual Awakening: The Challenges and Gifts of Awakening
• The Spiritual Path: Dialogues Between Master and a spiritual Seeker on the spiritual Path
• The Enlightenment: Dialogues Between Master and a Spiritual Seeker on the Nature of Enlightenment
• The Revolution of Consciousness: Deconditioning the Programmed Mind
• … and several other books on consciousness and the process of enlightenment.