Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Brain

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Brain

23rd July 2014

By Deane Alban

Contributing Writer for Wake Up World

I recently saw a bumper sticker that said “Don’t Believe Everything You Think” and it got me thinking… about thinking.

The average person has around 50,000 thoughts per day and in most people they are predominantly negative. (1)

How Thoughts Create Your Brain

Your thoughts are more than fleeting moments created by your brain. In many ways, your thoughts are your brain.

Every thought creates a neural connection. Think a thought often enough and the neural connection will get strong, particularly if there is an emotional attachment to it. Conversely, if a memory has no use or is rarely stimulated, eventually those neural connections will wither away from disuse.

Thoughts also change your brain by stimulating the production of brain chemicals which can change the structure and function of your brain.

A good example is what happens to your brain under stress. When a situation you perceive as stressful occurs, it increases your level of the stress hormone cortisol. Prolonged exposure to cortisol literally excites your brain cells to death, particularly in the hippocampus, the seat of memory.

Cortisol also halts the formation of serotonin, a calming neurotransmitter, and brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF) which is essential in forming new brain cells. Stress actually leads to premature aging on a cellular level causing cells in both your body and your brain to commit suicide.

Cognitive Distortions: Thoughts That Aren’t True

Psychologists have labeled certain negative thought patterns as cognitive distortions. These are simply ways that our mind convinces us of something that isn’t actually true.

See if any of these thought patterns sound familiar to you:

  • Dwelling obsessively on a single, unpleasant detail.
  • Seeing everything as either black or white — no middle ground.
  • Overgeneralizing with words like “always” and “never”.
  • Jumping to conclusions.
  • Catastrophizing or seeing the worst in every situation.
  • Taking things personally.
  • Blaming others for your problems or your reactions.
  • Blaming yourself for things outside of your control.
  • Being driven by “shoulds” and “shouldn’ts” which leads to feelings of guilt.
  • Going to any length to be right.

If you have these kinds of thoughts, know that they are working against you in many ways. They probably lead to a lot of unhappiness for both you and those around you. But worst of all is that they are causing you stress which is keeping your brain from being as healthy as it can be.

Challenge Your Thoughts

Besides years of psychoanalysis, is there anything that you can easily do to change these negative thought patterns?

dont believe everything you think - CopyRemember the bumper sticker.

Next time you catch yourself falling into one of these patterns, remind yourself that you don’t have to believe everything you think. Recognize a thought as a cognitive distortion and challenge it instead.

You may recall a self-help book from the 90”²s, You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought. The next time you find yourself thinking negatively, remind yourself that this is true. Your thoughts are powerful. They create brain chemicals that are either adding to or subtracting from your brain health.

Quiet Your Mind with Meditation

Gaining control of your thoughts is one of the best things you can do to improve your brain, your happiness, and overall well-being. One of the simplest and most effective techniques to do this is with meditation.

Over 1,000 studies have been published proving the health benefits of meditation. (2)

People who meditate have stronger neural connections between different parts of the brain. Their brains show less atrophy due to age and have more neural synapses.

Regular meditators experience improved focus and concentration, greater creativity, stress reduction, better sleep, and even improved immune function. Meditation can make you happier, smarter, and more resilient regarding life’s ups and downs.

If you are new to meditation or haven’t done it with much success, check out the links below for different ways to meditate — guided meditation, sound technology, and brainwave entrainment. Download one or more of the free audio files that you can start using instantly. See which kind of meditation works best for you, then make it a regular habit. It takes only 10 minutes a day and can change your life!

These popular brainwave entrainment meditation programs offer sample meditations you can download for free (as MP3s):

  • OmHarmonics – brainwave entrainment overlaid with lush, relaxing music.
  • Brain Evolution — brainwave entrainment that sounds like a babbling brook.

Alternatively, you might prefer to experience the brain benefits of Do-It-Yourself Biofeedback!

(Learn how to effortlessly embrace new healthy habits here.)

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About the author:deane alban

Contributing writer Deane Alban holds a bachelor’s degree in biology and has taught and written on a wide variety of natural health topics for over 20 years. Her current focus is helping people overcome brain fog, “senior moments”, and other signs of mental decline now, and preventing Alzheimer’s and dementia in the future.

The human brain is designed to last a lifetime, but modern life takes a greater toll on the brain than most people realize. Deane teaches the best ways to keep your brain healthy and stay mentally sharp for life at her website


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  • Jane

    Id be interested to know what you make on in cognitive behavior therapy for OCD, one of the things they teach you, especially when doing exposure and responce prevention therapy. Is to make loop tape (audio tapes) of your worst fears, so basically you are repeating your fear over and over again, the aim is to reduce the anxiety associated with the feared thought. But I just had a thought after reading this, isnt by purposely thinking of something you are making that connection in the brain Every thought creates a neural connection. Think a thought often enough and the neural connection will get strong, particularly if there is an emotional attachment to it. Quote
    ”Conversely, if a memory has no use or is rarely stimulated, eventually those neural connections will wither away from disuse.”

    Id be interested to hear thoughts on this if you have any exp in dealing with OCD disorder.

    • I think repeating your fear over and over is not the right approach. You want an NLP approach where when you think about it you are turning the brigjtness down, making it quieter, smaller, darker…harder to see, feel or sense. Look for a PSYCH-K facilitator. They can walk you thru balancing the stress and trauma and finding out why the subconscious is repeating the pattern of behavior so it can start to change.
      MIND POWER by John Kehoe is a great book with great exercises to help build your mental powers to stop thoughts from being the boss of you.

  • I read this article and the part about your brain focusing on negative experiences really rang true for me.

    I’ve had that happen, where I will think back to an experience that was painful for me, and my brain will become fixated on that time and that pain.

    It is a really frustrating place to be at. Luckily I have been working on myself considerably lately and I believe I am slowly overcoming these obstacles.

  • Ashish Rajput

    so nice artical