Connecting with Your Tribe: 10 Essential Keys to Calling in Your ‘People’

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By Michele Peppler

Guest Writer for Wake Up World

In this era of new earth consciousness, people are ‘waking up’ at an exponential rate. If you’re one of these newly awakened souls, well, chances are you’ve outgrown your life.

Suddenly jobs, living situations, romantic relationships and even entire friendship circles seem foreign, so it’s an understatement to say you probably feel a little isolated. Especially when, as you are deep in the abyss of the big questions like ‘Why am I here?’, ‘Where did we actually come from?’, ‘What is my higher calling?’ and hey while we’re down the rabbit hole, ‘Just who the hell AM I anyway!?’, people around you are discussing who won X-Factor, which royal married what celebrity, or how much they hate their boss!

Rest assured, if you’re embarking on a spiritual journey, you are right where you are supposed to be, and finding your tribe is as fundamental a piece of the awakening journey puzzle as finding your calling.

The great thing is, it is not only possible to be a conscious creator in this realm, but to accelerate how this happens, who with and how to catalyse your growth, your visions and each other.

So today, I offer my top ten tips to consciously calling in ‘your people’ – the ones that fit with and will support you on this new journey.

10 Essential Keys to Calling in Your ‘People’

1. Be Authentic

Quite simply ‘You gotta be real!’ Before you can create a soul community you must know who you really are and be living a life in alignment with your truth. Until YOU are clear on who you really are and act congruently with who that is, you ARE attracting like-minds – just ones who are matching what you are projecting out to the world about who you are. So if that’s a mask, you’re relationships are likely to be circumstantial at best.

2. Take Responsibility

Understand the roles that people in your life up until now, have played in your greater understanding and experience of self, spiritual growth and personal evolution from a place of personal empowerment and self-responsibility. Often blame justifies our current shitty situation and can be a wonderful excuse for not having or creating what we want in our lives. When we take full responsibility for our lives, the part we played in our past relationships and the role we are playing now in our current relationships we create a gateway for the authentic level of connection required to truly connect with our tribe – tribe won’t put up with your B.S – they’ll hold you accountable to being the best version of you, call you on your stuff and inspire you to evolve and expand or bring into being what you are here in this life-time to create.

3. Consciously Decide

Make a conscious decision about who you want to be for yourself and where you are headed in life, what you want and don’t want for your future, and create a life and people around you who support that – many times you know what you don’t want because you’ve experienced it, but we continue to complain about the experience rather than just focus on what we are now clear we desire.

4. Evaluate Relationships

Recognise old relationships that no longer serve who you wish to be for yourself – this doesn’t mean they are ‘bad’ or what they are choosing to do with their lives is wrong – it just doesn’t support who you want to be for yourself now. This takes a commitment to yourself to know what fosters the best version of you and what doesn’t and to create personal boundaries around who you chose to allow into your circle of influence.

5. Cultivate Relationships

Identify the kindred spirits already in your life that support your highest evolution and consciously cultivate those relationships.

6. Cut the Ties That Bind

Cut energetic ties that bind you to the past and to old ideas about who you think you are, and who others think you are. Allow yourself to be who you want to be from this moment forward and only create and sustain relationships that nourish and support this.

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7. Shine and Evolve

Shift blockages that lower your vibration and keep you attracting people into your life who mirror any negative beliefs around expectations of what you deserve. Give yourself permission to shine. This one may require re-educating some people about who you are as you evolve.

8. Raise Your Vibration

Call in your soul people by becoming a vibrational match for who and what you want to attract into your life. For instance, where are you not honouring your truth or fulfilling your potentiality? If I want creative people who respect me and share an aligned vision, ask: Am I expressing my creativity? Do I respect myself and am I clearly living my own vision?

9. Seek Higher Guidance

Ask for guidance from your ethereal wayshowers to connect you with people your soul-tribe. The law of non-interference or ‘free will’ means that unless we invite celestial help, everything in the universe is what we create for ourselves (or co-create with others), and since every person involved in co-creation has already given their consent to what is happening to them there is no need to mess with it. However, if you ask to be connected with your soul people with the caveat of it being for the highest good for all, it’s likely that the connection will be accelerated.

10. Recognize Your People When You Find Them

Understand how to recognise your soul people when you connect with them. Be brave, notice if someone feels good to you energetically and take action to follow up the connection. Hint – If someone keeps on coming into your consciousness, chances are there’s a reason.

Connecting with Your Tribe

See a lot of people feel they want like-minded people in their life and that they don’t have that.

The thing is though, generally they do – it’s just that what they are really seeking are their ‘soul people’, but who they are attracting is more consistent with the mask they have been wearing.

So if what you desire are kindred spirits who understand who you ‘really’ are; who are in ‘your conversation’; light you up, inspire you to be a better person; restore your faith in humanity and make you believe again that we are all connected in oneness; and help you feel alive, important, appreciated, valued, and deeply understood… get real – drop the veil, follow the tips above and your people will be waiting on the other side – promise!

About the author:

Michele PepplerMichele Peppler is a Melbourne-based Seeker, Visionary and Way-shower, deeply committed to the awakening and evolution of humanity.

A former corporate manager turned Truth-Mentor, Author, Trainer and Speaker, she supports aspiring change-makers and budding entrepreneurs of societal change undergoing the awakening process to reconnect with their deepest truth and greater soul-calling and inspires them to share that with the world. Her real, raw and grounded approach to consciousness and spirituality takes the voodoo out of the woo-woo and enables deep transformation for those starting a spiritual path without feeling like they’ve somehow been thrust into spiritual olympics!

She is founder of Within, Without Mentoring & Events; Author of ‘How to Make a Career from your Calling’; columnist for L’Amour TV, Smart Healthy Women’s Magazine; Regular guest presenter for conscious festivals such as Rainbow Serpent, Earthcore and Maitraya and has even infiltrated mainstream publications like ‘The Age’ and the ‘Sydney Morning Herald’ newspapers.

Michele runs shared workshops, trainings and programs around Australia and offers private mentoring locally and globally via Skype. Connect with Michele at www.withinwithout.com.au or www.facebook.com/WithinWithoutCoaching

 


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  • Tia

    Wow! What an amazing article. Thank you so much for sharing 🙂

  • jessica

    Great article and exactly what I needed right now. Thank you!

  • GREAT article! I talk a lot about being careful who you let in your inner circle. This post does a wonderful job of taking that whole idea much deeper for those who don’t yet get it. Excellent!

  • Maria King

    This is a wonderful article and has completely hit the nail on the head for where I am now. Thank you so much. I am feeling a lot lost!! Everything around me feels alien, food, tv, driving, even my kids! Is this normal? I’m looking at them thinking, “I love you but we are so different and disconnected,,,” which doesn’t feel good. I’m not far along enough,confident enough yet or knowledgable enough to share with them.. I was so happy and now feeling dreadful. Help!

    • Michele Peppler

      Nice to know it’s part of the process hey Maria! I call it working your truth muscle, just like any other muscle it gets stronger the more you work it – in the beginning, anyone can seemingly rock you and steer your boat away from your path, but the more you build upon your sense of self and own your truth in a world where so many are sleeping, the more resilience, resolve and absolute liberation you have – the truth will set you free!
      much love xx

  • Shannon Ciccone

    I love this article and the universe revealed it to me at exactly the right time. Thank you Michelle!!

    • Michele Peppler

      My absolute pleasure treasure, so glad it spoke to you xx

  • Michele Peppler

    Indeed! glad you worked it out Soph! <3

  • Michele Peppler

    Awww – beautiful! Thanks Senada. What kind words xx

  • Michaela

    With regards to #10: what if you recognise a soul person, and even dare to communicate to them that the meeting does not feel like a chance meeting, yet they remain unimpressed and continue progressing in 3D, in fact start to distance themselves from you?!

    • Ella Bodea

      Let them go. This is just my advice coming from my personal experience. You spoke your truth and it was their choice to distance themselves. I’m sorry you had to feel this , I know it’s a stinger.
      I send you love 🙂

    • TeeJae

      Then they’re not a true member of your tribe; at least not at the moment. Let them go, and maybe they’ll come back to you at the *right* time.