By Katya Ki
Guest Writer for Wake Up World
Feng Shui is not just a practice for attracting wealth and success into your life. It’s also a very powerful tool to help invoke the necessary chi energy to attract love and happiness. In this article, I want to share with you how you can use simple yet effective Feng Shui tips that can jazz up your love life, increase passion between you and your partner, and energize your marriage with conjugal happiness!
The Magic Of Feng Shui
The most wonderful thing about Feng Shui is that you don’t have to be a Feng Shui master to practice it. If you know the basic principles of Feng Shui, you can improve the quality of your life very quickly and easily.
When your house has good Feng Shui, it literally becomes infused with peace and harmony. When your home is happy and calm, it becomes a real sanctuary – just as a home should be.
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying that our bodies are the temples for our spirits. The magical thing about Feng Shui is that it considers our homes to be temples for our physical bodies. And everything about Feng Shui practice is aligned with this principle. By practicing Feng Shui, we transform our houses into sacred temples that are filled with light, bliss, and joy.
Our homes should give us support, energy protection, and be peaceful sanctuaries for us. We should always keep in mind that our homes energetically influence us all the time. And if the space inside our homes is not balanced and harmonized, it will eventually negatively affect certain areas of our lives. Therefore, it is essential to put energy and time into creating good Feng Shui for your home.
8 Feng Shui Tips For Improving Your Relationship
I’ve picked 8 simple yet very effective Feng Shui tips for you that don’t require any complicated formulas. These tips will not only help you to improve your relationship and attract love but also will help you to harmonize your life and become happier. By following these Feng Shui tips anyone can learn how to organize their space in such a way that their house will turn into a temple of love!
Tip #1: Sleep in your love direction
That’s right, whether you’re trying to find your soulmate or want to improve your relationship with your partner, it is a wonderful idea to sleep with the crown of your head pointed toward your love direction.
Moreover, for those of you who are having a hard time conceiving a child, sleeping with your head pointed toward your man’s love direction (which is also a family direction) is a good way of generating the luck of descendants, of having children, and of being able to conceive.
Take a look at what direction your headboard is facing. This is the direction you sleep in! Use the tables below to find your love direction and the love direction of your partner. Then move your bed in a way that it’s facing your love direction.
Let’s start with finding out your Kua number. Use the table below to figure it out.
Now that you know your Kua number it’s easy to find your love direction. Just locate your Kua number in the table below and you’ll find your love direction.
Now that you know your love direction, make sure to move your bed so that it’s facing it.
But what if you and your partner have different Kua numbers and love directions? How should you move the bed then? Who should you prioritize? Feng Shui Masters don’t have the same opinion about this. However, from the Chinese perspective, it is a woman who is the Keeper of the home and the purity of the family. That’s why some Feng Shui masters say that it’s best to move the bed such that it faces the good directions of the hostess (according to her Kua number).
Tip #2: Inspect your bed
Take a closer look at your bed. Does it look attractive? Make sure your bed has nice bedspreads and decorative pillows on it. Dark colors will not help you to create romance. Give preference to soft warm tones for linens – peach, warm beige, etc. Make your bed radiate love and romance. The bed should always be clean and tidy!
If you are married and want to refresh your relationship, there is an ancient proven way to do it. All you need to do is throw away the oldest sheets that you have in the house. Thus, you will cleanse your relationship from negative and stagnant energies! This method can also be used to stop fights and abuse between spouses.
Tip #3: Make sure you sleep on the correct side of the bed!
According to Feng Shui, men should sleep on the left-hand side of the bed (determined when lying on your back) and women should sleep on the right-hand side. When you’re sleeping on the correct side of the bed it creates the balance of Yin and Yang energy in the marital bed. Oppositely, when you’re sleeping on the incorrect side of the bed, it creates an imbalance of feminine and masculine energies.
Tip #4: Remove the TV from the bedroom
It’s very common to have a TV in the bedroom. However, it can be very harmful to your energy. The bedroom should always remain calm, harmonious, and a peaceful atmosphere. However, when we’re watching TV, we are bombarded with negative information. The negativity that is coming from the TV affects our aura and activates the negative energy flow in the bedroom.
Another problem that can be caused by TV in the bedroom is infidelity. Yes, you read it right! You see, when you turn off the TV screen, it becomes a reflecting surface (almost like a mirror). Feng Shui Masters believe that if the bedroom has a mirror and it reflects the sleeping couple, the mirror surface acts as a third partner in their relationship which leads to infidelity, quarrels, and discord in any relationship, no matter how strong they may be.
Therefore, it is essential to remove the TV from the bedroom for the sake of your relationship.
If you live in a studio apartment and your bedroom is also a living room and there is no way you can move the TV to another room. In such a situation consider turning it off no later than half an hour before bedtime, and open the window to get some fresh air to the room.
Tip #5: Add Some Light
The southwest corner in your house represents your romantic life, love, and marriage. Therefore, make sure that this sector is clean, free of dust, and that you don’t have a trash can here.
To attract love, you need to make the southwest sector light and bright. Make sure it has enough natural light. If it doesn’t, use a lamp to keep the area properly lit.
When you use more light in the Southeast corner, this light attracts romantic luck into your life!
If you don’t have a Southwest sector in your house, you can activate it in the living room. Simply find the Southwest corner there and make sure it’s clean, bright and lighted.
Tip #6: Check Your Bathroom Location
Toilets placed in the Southwest (romantic luck sector) of the house have a negative effect on the marriage, affecting the relationship between partners in a very bad way. To heal the energy of your Southwest sector, place flowers and plants inside the bathroom. But do not place crystals or ceramic pots there!
Tip #7: Place seven crystal spheres in the Southwest corner of your bedroom
If you feel like your marriage has begun to turn sour, place seven crystal spheres in the Southwest corner of your bedroom. This will create powerful nurturing energy inside your bedroom and will improve the relationship.
Tip #8: Use the power of the Rose Quartz
Rose quartz symbolizes love, romance, and beauty. Since ancient times people have used it in love rituals and ceremonies. This powerful crystal is often used for healing broken hearts, protection, and attracting romantic luck.
For improving your relationship, place a heart-shaped rose quartz in your bedroom. Displayed in the bedroom, rose quartz becomes a powerful Feng Shui tool for boosting love and romance in your life.
The Bottom Line
There are many complicated Feng Shui formulas people use for improving their relationship and romantic life. But even by using these simple Feng Shui tips, you can improve your romantic life, boost your passion, attract love, and even improve your health. Make your home your own little sanctuary! Let it be the most peaceful and harmonious place for you – your own little love temple. And then very soon you will notice how these little Feng Shui corrections can change your life for the better forever!
About the author:
Katya Ki is the Founder of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, Feng Shui Consultant and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics, cosmology, and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she’s still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!