Minimizing Ego, Realizing Self

By  Paul Lenda

Guest Writer for Wake Up World

For many of us, the question “Who am I?” is a much more difficult one than we let  ourselves believe. The ego, the “I”, or self that we feel we are, is largely a figment of our self-created reality. Ultimately, our true self is not the ego which feels it is separate from others, but a part of an  undivided whole that has the same spark of infinite love that is within everyone and everything  —  even if it seems sometimes that this is not the case.

The ego can become so incredibly empowered at times that we may fall into the trap of believing that it is the real and genuine “I” that we should associated our awareness with. If we have such a belief we will be unable to become fully self-realized and live a completely liberated life that is guided by love. When we directly experience and are aware of the true self, we find ourselves being aware of the reality that we are water drops from an infinite sea.

The ego is unreal in a way. We create it in order to cope with our social interactions. The ego is a false center, a smokescreen, and a barrier to the true Self. It’s what gets in the way of experiencing unconditional love. It’s what gets in the way of directly experiencing the source of reality. It’s the deeply-buried but always-present intuition that we are the center of the universe/everything that gives rise to feelings and beliefs in our uniqueness and specialness. What we see ourselves as being, which is a perception that stems from our time-and-sense-bound consciousness is ultimately unreal.

All of our self-limiting activities grow out of this false picture of ourselves and because of this we conjure up an idea of a dualistic world of self and other, of things separated and isolated, of pain and struggle, birth and death, killing and being killed, etc etc etc. This picture of reality that we paint for ourselves is untrue because it’s not seeing reality for the way it truly is. A good analogy for this is that it’s like looking at the tip of an iceberg above the water and refusing to acknowledge the most of it is still underneath the water.

If we could see beyond the continuously-changing forms into the primary reality, we would realize that fundamentally there is nothing but harmony and unity and that this perfection is no different from the phenomenal world of continuous change and transformation.

I’m not saying that the ego is inherently “wrong” to posses – we all possess it, after all. It can be likened to a tool that we have and can use and just like with any tool, if you don’t have it under control, it carries with it the potential to become dangerous, and cause you and others a great deal of harm, pain, and suffering. This is why I used the term ego minimization.

As you transcend lower levels of consciousness that are firmly rooted within the domain of the ego, you become less and less prone to falling into the grip of the ego and letting it sway you every which way it pleases. Through ego minimization, we are able to directly experience the true nature of who we are. The question of “Who am I?” becomes a much easier question to answer when we get out of our own way.

Self-realization in its fundamental and most elementary meaning is the direct experience and awareness of the true self (that luminous spark of the source of all that is that is all that is within itself). The higher Self is often masked by the false self, which by now you probably see is the ego. Both transpersonal psychology and psychosynthesis explore and unravel the nature of self-realization. In Hinduism, it refers to the experiencing the reality that one’s higher Self is a mirror image and spark of the the Source or ultimate reality. By minimizing the ego and  truly honoring  the Self, enlightenment becomes a state of existence we can finally attain.

So how can we get from an ego-dominated life to a self-realized one filled with harmony and unity? There’s many ways to go about it. Some ways are the following:

• Kundalini cultivation
• Meditations on higher states of consciousness
• Letting go of all egoistic thought forms or ideas
• Administering the principle of oneness in everyday life
• Transcending emotions and mind states such as anger, greed, hate, jealousy, fear, shame, and guilt
• Brainwave entrainment

This is by no means an exhaustive list, but simply a list of ways that have helped me in my own self-realization. In an  age where youth see a lack of true leaders to help them in their quest to answer the age-old question of “Who am I?”, many turn to psychedelics in order to peel away the thick layers of false-self that the ego has hidden our true self under. Although enlightenment doesn’t come on a piece of paper, or in a pill, or a sugar cube, there are  some who are now self-realized who attribute their awakening to breaking down ego in this way. But attachment to the technology that opened the door for us must too be left behind, if genuine and enlightenment are our goals.

Whatever methods you use for minimizing the ego, it is ultimately the end-result that truly matters, not the path you  take to get to it. Pay attention to how your ego controls your thoughts and actions so that you can recognize it, and reduce its grasp on your life. Once you  identify how ego  affects you, you can minimize its influence on your being, helping to clear your  way to that  blissful state of pure be-ing.

If you truly wish to become enlightened, starting within is a fundamental step.

Are you ready to peel away the layers of illusion?

Previous articles by Paul Lenda:

• Lifting the Veil of Separation
• How Solar Flares Directly Affect Human Consciousness
• Conscious Evolution for the Sake of Our Future
• Becoming an Intentional Evolutionary
• 9 Ways to Spot a Fake Guru or Spiritual Teacher
• 9 Healing Benefits of Music
• Survival of the Kindest: Evidence Humankind is Evolving to Become More Compassionate
• The Ancient Esoteric Wisdom of the Hawaiian Huna Philosophy
• 8 Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation.. and Free Ourselves From It
• Accelerating Our Collective Emergence Into a New Paradigm
• 10 Ways to Shift Your Consciousness
• Becoming the Infinite Conscious Creative Force of Reality
• 9 Significant Benefits of Green Tea

About the author:

Long time  contributor  Paul Lenda  is a conscious evolution guide, author of “The Creation of a Consciousness Shift“ and co-founder of  SHIFT>, a social community of intentional evolutionaries  focused on anchoring in the new paradigm and assisting the positive transformation of humanity. With the drive to be aware of and experience the wider horizon of Reality, Paul has developed an extensive background in the spiritual and transformative elements of life; one that is both knowledge and experienced-based.

Paul has spoken at various shows, events and locations including the United Nations and My Spirit Radio, and has had his articles published in magazines and journals around the world.

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